I normally I try to avoid posting pictures of myself on this blog for several reasons (safety and pride being on the top of the list), but I completely agree with Katie in the need to see beauty as God's light shining through us, and not as the meager human definition that it is so commonly refered to.
I currently have the privilege to study the process of human communication and have learned that a good portion of our communication is nonverbal. How one looks, even the things that the person has no control over, has a huge influence. We prefer symmetrical things, especially when it comes to one's face, so human beauty is defined as perfectly spaced, even sized facial features.
Now, here is where things get tricky. My eyes are different sizes, my ears aren't aligned and I have a dimple but only on one side; my quirks continue down my body as my shoulders are different sizes and so are my feet. So by human definition, I am really quite ugly; however, the only person who has ever called me ugly has been me. It does not make any sense, I hardly make any of the qualifications of what society deems to be beautiful, and yet that is exactly what I have been told and what I am.
Now, here is where things get tricky. My eyes are different sizes, my ears aren't aligned and I have a dimple but only on one side; my quirks continue down my body as my shoulders are different sizes and so are my feet. So by human definition, I am really quite ugly; however, the only person who has ever called me ugly has been me. It does not make any sense, I hardly make any of the qualifications of what society deems to be beautiful, and yet that is exactly what I have been told and what I am.
It is crazy how society has us running around doing our best to chase after a value that they've assigned to beauty, but to which only God has the true power to define. (1Peter 3:3-4). Remember we are made in the very image of God! The beauty that each of us bears is a hard to understand and even harder to explain to others. One of my friends worded this phenomenon perfectly by saying that 'God made us to be so much more than what society could ever define or comprehend'.
Bearing the image of heaven should not be narrowed down to what society can see and measure as perfect, thanks Katie for the fun reminder!
GLory! I am SERIOUSLY So excited that you found my blog:) I totally remember you and your sweet family:) And I LOVE that you posted this. Girl, you are absolutely STUNNING! ANd GOd made such a beautiful woman when he made you! Your heart is so lovely as well, and I'm so glad we get to catch up like this! How have you been? Let's definitely keep in touch!!! Love Katie
ReplyDeleteAwww, Thanks Katie! I find great joy in reading about your adventures, and I am humbled that you enjoyed my post. My family and I now live in the Show-Me state Missouri and I am currently a student at Missouri State University.I have discovered that even though I'm not on the international mission field (like I want to be) God is still using me to be a witness to the people around me, and I'm doing my best to adjust to His call in my life in the new setting of college. It's going to be fun staying in touch through our blogs!
DeleteAmen! This is so true...we can serve God on mission WHEREVER we are!!! Love this! Thanks for connecting us again:) love Katie
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